21 Replies to “Pajama Day”

      • Indeed. We should start with the offensive anonymous comment made on June 3rd calling folk “nonces.” On what grounds is Mr/Mrs/Ms/Mx anonymous alleging that anyone on here is/has been convicted of sex offences against children and what evidence do they have to back this up?

  1. I went through a lot of the stuff you did and even attempted to take my own life aged 15. First up, folks beating up on you at school is on them, not us. Likewise with the horrible family. I stopped giving them money and they don’t want to know. They even moved away without telling me where they went then resurfaced 11 years later and tried to gaslight me over the split. F*** ’em, don’t need ’em. The big difference between the two of us is that when I was on the path to recovery in the late 70’s/ early 80’s there was no “incel”, no “black pill” and above all no internet where people could put bad ideas into my head and make me feel even worse. I lived alone but rather than thinking about my bad situation I researched into stuff that interested me. I’d go out and follow my favourite soccer team and joined a Tai Chi class so I belonged to a group even though I wasn’t actually with anyone. I did suffer homophobic taunts from certain alpha male heterosexual colleagues who made all kind of disgusting suggestions (it was “banter” and “a joke” back in the 1980’s) about why I didn’t have a girlfriend and i let off steam after work by spending much of the time alone at home in the nude. I put a picture of an “ordinary” (as opposed to “porn star”) naked woman from a naturist magazine in every room in the house. I stripped to music (great for keep fit warm up) and exercised naked afterwards. I sunbathed nude in a spot by the kitchen door where the neighbours couldn’t see and I masturbated often, both there and in every room of the house. I even tried to alleviate feelings of loneliness by buying women’s lingerie and draping it over a spare pillow to give the illusiory feel of a woman next to me when I went to bed. In this way I gradually healed and eventually got into a platonic relationship with a woman which led to me finally finding a partner and getting married. Sad as it is recalling some of the things I had to do just to get through the day back then I sometimes miss the freedom of those times. Don’t give up. Find a way that works for you and make the best of what you’ve got.

    • There was something like the Blackpill in your years too. Even if that was more academically encapsulated under the term relationship dynamics. Since women were completely emancipated, they have become hypergamous and only want the alpha male, the Chad. They only get involved with Bethas because they have nothing else available at the moment or their sexual market value is slowly declining with age. They want to be taken care of. But as soon as they can upgrade, they do it. That’s why relationships don’t last very long these days. The fact that many young men are still completely immature due to the prevailing hedonistic lifestyle and are not able to offer women the economic security they need to start a family also contributes to this. Only men who have this under control are attractive. And yes I have it. But of course women prefer the specimens that also look good. Back in the 40s and 50s, women had to think carefully about which men they would get involved with. They were quickly socially drained as sluts if they changed their sexual partners like their underwear. Nobody cares anymore and women make use of this power. We men have it a lot harder. patriarchate? hahaha

      • I think you need to get away from this stuff and just live your life. I didn’t know about any of it in the 1980’s. If I had it may well have damaged, if not destroyed my recovery. Ignorance really was bliss in the final analysis!

    • If you dont belive that watch this dude. He only sit in front of his webcam and all the girl falling in love to him instand. Try the same and you understand what hypergamy means.

  2. Guys, put the bottle down , take a walk outside and clear your head, watch the morning sunrise and realize that today is a new day, time for new beginnings leave the web and enjoy the real world , learn something new every day, help someone for the sake of helping,

  3. It’s good that she shows how she really sleeps. It would be discrimination if the school forced you to sleep in pajamas if they didn’t tolerate a commitment to skin-pajamas. I’m pretty sure more girls are sleeping naked and now have the courage to admit it.

    And on another matter…

    @GOWK24

    Peace? I am not a pedophile. Just a milf lover wishing to be young again and trying to seduce adult women. this is my fantasy. The only minor in it is solely my former self. I’m not interested in any underage bodies. Only to milfs. But now that I’m 30, a milf wouldn’t be the same what it’s supposed to be if I were imagining it with who I am now. I’m as good as dead myself now. I am rotten meat now. My life is over. I’ve never had a relationship or sex, so I guess I’m still a teenager emotionally. At this point I seem to have gotten stuck in the emotional development. So this has nothing to do with pedophilia but rather with midlife crisis because I have realized that the (maybe they would have been if I hadn’t been an introvert) best years of my life are meaningless and irretrievably lost.

    • In addition:

      I have no friends, nor did I have any friends when I was a child. I go to work where I’m alone most of the time and come home where I’m also alone. My family only contacts me when they need money or a guarantor for the bank to take out a loan. Apparently I’m not fit for more for my family. I am completely isolated. Everyone who used to know me has forgotten me and has already moved away. There is no way for me to build any relationships. My life is over. If I killed myself, then at most the neighbors would notice it when the hallway started to stink.

    • I believe at this point I need to accept the truth and change my name to “just another incel”. Another step towards the inevitable end of my existence.

    • Why is my situation the way it is today? I think the Blackpill is the answer. There must have been a reason why I was the punching bag at school and why no girl was ever interested in me. And when I look in the mirror, I see what they saw back then. A guy you can do whatever you want with because he’s worthless.

      • My man, don’t give up like that.

        I don’t know how old you are, but remember: men have a big advantage over women as they get older, they get more attractive to a wider age range, unlike women, who see their option pool shrink as they age. It’s kinda sad for them but maybe this cheers you up.

        But you need to get there in good shape first. Not physical shape. You need to take care of your mental health. If you do that you’ll see that your future can be brighter and you’ll see your opportunities expand.

        And if someone says no to you or cheats on you, who cares? Just go for open relationship or whatever. There’s many ways to live and if you think you’re unable to find a monogamous relationship just try something else. I’ve heard gardening and biking are great pastimes that nudists usually enjoy.

        Someday someone will see what’s good in you, but only if let your good side grow. Otherwise there’ll be nothing good left for them to admire when the time comes.

        (Sorry for my English… this sounds like good advice in my language, not sure how good it sounds like in English)

    • Peace, absolutely. I’m sorry for your isolated situation, I can relate to an awful lot of that.

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